This is my type evidently. I dislike it and don’t like admitting it. I think the type sounds so boring and way too externally-focused. I’d like to think I have gifts to offer that are more special than emergency preparedness and responsibility. Especially compared to, like, the joy of the 7 or the strength of the 8, the focus on security feels very unflattering. One thing that has benefitted me since finding out I’m this type, I have completely stopped doing things for other people. I don’t want that to be why I’m here on this earth. I want to shine for who *I* am, not for how I can help others.
I do wish these type descriptions were a little more equal. Some of the others have quite flattering descriptors. I don’t feel mine gives me much to work with.
Thank you for sharing your honest reaction. It sounds like you're feeling a bit frustrated with how personality pattern Six is often portrayed.
I wonder if there might be a different way to look at the Six's focus on security? Could it be a foundation for developing other strengths and gifts, rather than the whole story?
While Sixes are known for their responsibility and preparedness, they're also incredibly courageous, loyal, and compassionate. They have a strong sense of justice and a deep desire to contribute to something meaningful.
Every Enneagram personality pattern has its own set of challenges and opportunities for growth. For Sixes, it might involve learning to trust their own inner guidance and finding a balance between security and taking healthy risks.
If you're interested in exploring aspects of the Six pattern further, let me know and we can have a talk. But either way, please know that I respect you for your willingness to be self-aware. 🙂
This is my type evidently. I dislike it and don’t like admitting it. I think the type sounds so boring and way too externally-focused. I’d like to think I have gifts to offer that are more special than emergency preparedness and responsibility. Especially compared to, like, the joy of the 7 or the strength of the 8, the focus on security feels very unflattering. One thing that has benefitted me since finding out I’m this type, I have completely stopped doing things for other people. I don’t want that to be why I’m here on this earth. I want to shine for who *I* am, not for how I can help others.
I do wish these type descriptions were a little more equal. Some of the others have quite flattering descriptors. I don’t feel mine gives me much to work with.
Thank you for sharing your honest reaction. It sounds like you're feeling a bit frustrated with how personality pattern Six is often portrayed.
I wonder if there might be a different way to look at the Six's focus on security? Could it be a foundation for developing other strengths and gifts, rather than the whole story?
While Sixes are known for their responsibility and preparedness, they're also incredibly courageous, loyal, and compassionate. They have a strong sense of justice and a deep desire to contribute to something meaningful.
Every Enneagram personality pattern has its own set of challenges and opportunities for growth. For Sixes, it might involve learning to trust their own inner guidance and finding a balance between security and taking healthy risks.
If you're interested in exploring aspects of the Six pattern further, let me know and we can have a talk. But either way, please know that I respect you for your willingness to be self-aware. 🙂